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Fathers Day Love


Jerek oh Jerek where do I begin!
Did you know this is your first fathers day as a daddy bear of two, nutso, I know!
In case you are wondering why your Fathers Day card isn't filled with the usual mushy gushy stuff,
it's because I wrote it here. For all to see. {Sorry...kinda?}

When it's time to write things in cards I always have one of two problems. I either have too much to say and not enough room, or too much room with what feels like, not enough to say.
I figured I could type things out so I can delete & spell check 
so we both aren't embarrassed by spelling kills.

So here we are,
just me thinking about how amazing you are, crying at the computer screen
looking at videos, photos and old notes you've written me {as you know
I still have them!}

I've been in love with you since 7th grade when we first met.
We've grown up together for the last 15 years {holy shit we're OLD!!!}
To think that it all started over me bringing you
 Little Caesars cheese bread at work.
I'm sure you caught on to my antics though,
I did invite myself over to your house rather often. 
I loved sitting at the dinner table talking about what I wanted
to do with myself after high school with your dad.
Did you ever think those conversations would have
lead to this amazing life we have together!

Friends, family & co-workers tell me that I'm a great mother and I agree with them{duh}
I think I'm doing a pretty good job at this thing so far!
But a huge reason why I contribute to being such a good mom
is because of
YOU.

I don't think you hear it enough 
but you're a damn good father.
Not a morning goes by that I don't thank God for you.
We both know that you keep me level headed {and that's a hard task to do!}
You make putting a swing set together sexy.
You change diapers, cook dinner & tell me how crazy I am
with a smile on your face.
You don't complain about much!
You eat my dinners, 
no matter how burnt, under cooked or bland they are.
When I'm excited you get excited with me.
You love the boys with your whole being.
You're present for everything, no matter how tired you may be.
You make Tracen laugh & Skylor smile.
You are just as weird {if not weirder}
than me!
My love and admiration for you
grows by the day.
You are more than
just the "father"
or the leg holder.
You are
a role model
a lover
a consoler
a friend
a partner.

We were just talking about where the last 5 years have gone
so I made a little reminder where we've spent them.

We love you daddy!!!


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Happy Birthday Jerek

We've been celebrating our birthday's together since I turned 13 and you came over to my first boy/girl birthday party in my backyard. I nearly shit myself when I found out you were attending, never mind the fact that you had a "girlfriend" at the time. Whats a girlfriend at the ripe age of 13 anyways. I was also in that real awkward 13 year old girl with braces, buck teeth and boobs too big for my body stage. hawwwwttt!


Lets recap the past few birthdays.


For your 25th birthday, I had a surprise party for you and you were actually surprised! I also managed
to not burst into a blabbering goon and spill all the details to you! Points for me!

For your 26th birthday I set up a small trip with your sister and brother-in-law which involved the mega bus, secret mimosas in McDonald cups and a trip to Chicago will with lots of booze and shopping!


For your 27th birthday....We found out the sex of our second little babe and celebrated with family.


I swear I keep trying to out do the birthday plans every year but it's getting hard and pricey! So it only makes sense that this year, for your 28th birthday we bought a house! NBD right? Right!

Since this house will basically be yours, mine and the kids birthday, Christmas, Easter, St. Patties day and Chinese New Years gift for the next 15 years I decided that this was a cheaper and possibly more sentimental gift. You have always been my number one fan, supporter and very best friend. You are the light that guides me through the darkness and the voice of reason. Without you I'd be lost, but with you I am EVERYTHING. Happy Birthday Jerbear!!!